Barriers to effective listening can be external or internal. External roadblocks can include multitasking distracters such as text messages, email, social media, or a setting with too many distractions. Try to be aware of external roadblocks and offset them if possible.
Internal roadblocks include conditions or reactions within the speaker or audience, such as:
- Emotional interference or defensiveness.
- Hearing only facts and not feelings.
- Hearing what is expected instead of what is said.
- Not seeking clarification.
- Stereotyping.
- Resistance to change or automatic dismissal (e.g., “We’ve never done it that way before.”).